A Guide to Surviving Marriage by Ferdi Hasan and Safina

As a couple working in the entertainment industry, Ferdi Hasan and Safina's strong marriage is no secret to the public eye. They've been together for decades and are now blessed with the presence of a daughter and two sons.

As Ferdi and Safina got married quite early, it was only natural that they faced many obstacles in their first years together. From postponing school to having kids, they had to struggle a lot during those times. "When our friends were still playing around, we both had to think one step ahead," Ferdi explained. "But in the long run, things gradually felt more comfortable. We became much more prepared for the things to come," he continued

Adapting to each other is yet another story. According to Ferdi and Safina, the smallest things are the ones that can actually pull the trigger.

The art of tolerance plays a big part in surviving married life. "Aside from embracing our roles in the household, we have to realize that we are partners. That way, it's easier to accept our partner's flaws without always wanting to change them," Safina said. "Sometimes,the small irritating things are the ones that you will miss the most, such as his snoring or him leaving stuff wherever he wants," she continued.

Furthermore, according to Ferdi and Safina, lack of tolerance and humility in marriage can even lead to separation. "If both parties let their ego get in the way and always assume that they are right, their marriage will have a hard time surviving," Ferdi said. "It's true. When you fight, don't let the problem linger for too long. Talk about everything and solve everything together," Safina added.

So, upon entering marriage,be entirely sure of your decision and that you know your partner well. You're going to spend the rest of your life with this person. Choose wisely.

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