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How to Build a Relationship with Your Future Father In-Law

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When it comes to your future in-laws, you want to do all that you can in order to get on their best side. However, often times the focus tends to be on doing things to impress both the father and mother in-law simultaneously. However, in this article we want to help you get to a more detailed way of breaking into the in-laws one person at a time. The truth is that father in-laws and mother in-laws differ in their preferences when it comes to how they would like to interact with their soon to be daughter in-law. So, when you are trying to get close to your mother in-law you cannot be using the same exact tactics you would used to get close to your father in-law. Sure, there are general ways to go about getting close to both of them but the more specific you are in your approach the better the results will be. Below is the top 5 ways you could use to build a relationship with your father in-law the best way possible:

1. Talk about how great his son is. When it comes to impressing the father in-law it helps to heighten his man pride by letting him know just how awesome of a son your partner is. Talking about how great his son is – is the equivalent of talking about what a great father he is that your partner has grown into such an amazing man. Making the father in-law feel good and proud of his son as well of his fatherly abilities will immediately put you in a good seat.

2. Be respectful. There are two major things in life that all men want and need and these are appreciation and respect. In step 1, you have managed to show appreciation (him as a father) and now it's time to show him respect. So, never under any circumstances should you be rude or disrespect him in any way.

3. Show your fun side. Whereas with the mother in-law you might want to tone down your 'fun' and 'carefree' side – when it comes to the father in-law, you actually have room to let your hair down a bit more. Showing that you have a great personality and can generally have a good time will show him that his son has made the right choice in picking someone who can have fun and not be too rigid.

4. Be a lady at all times. You can have fun and let your hair down, sure, but remember to still keep it classy. Just because you are spending some time with the father in-law doesn't mean you should start acting like 'one of the boys'.

5. Be kind and sweet towards his wife. Nothing will impress a father in-law more than seeing his wife being happy with you as the future daughter in-law. Show that you are making an effort to get to know your mother in-law and show how much you care about being a part of the family. His heart will melt and he will give his full approval if his wife is completely on board with you.

Although there are a lot of ways you can get closer to your future in-laws sometimes it helps to break into them one by one and with different approaches. Do these 5 things and more, and you will impress the in-laws in no time.

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